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Teas at Ruthmere


Ruthmere is known for tea.  We have a beautiful teapot collection, we have a tea and crumpets option for tour bus groups, and we've become famous for our "Downton Abbey Tea" events.  Ruthmere also offers "Tuesday's Teas at 2," featuring more casual teas every Tuesday in September and October. All teas will be open to the general public to attend.  Limited seating for each date, so register early.  It's tea time! 

Tea for All Seasons 2025




Mother & Me Tea

Sunday, April 27th, 2025

from 2-4pm

Join us for our Mother and Me Tea on Sunday, April 27, 2025 with tea food, sweets and an assortment of teas. This year's theme is Mom, You're Fan-tasicand there will be a guest speaker to talk about the Victorian language of the fan.

Our speaker for the Mother and Me Tea is generously sponsored by Debbie Kulwicki. Thank you!

This event is currently SOLD OUT. Use the link below to join the waitlist.

Register Here for the Mother & Me Tea

Etiquette Tea

Sunday, May 18th, 2025

from 2-4pm

Ladies and gentlemen, have you ever wondered what fork to use at a dinner    party or how to dress for a job interview? Proper etiquette has changed through out the years and Ruthmere is here to assist. Join us for our Modern Etiquette Tea on Sunday, May 18, 2025 from 2-4pm. Enjoy an afternoon tea and learn etiquette from DaVonne Kramer, founder of Regality, Inc. DaVonne has a Certification in Business and Social Etiquette from the Etiquette Institute, and she loves teaching etiquette because it promotes personal and professional growth, and it also helps individuals cultivate positive relationships, enhance their communication skills, and boosts self-confidence.

(Note - this is not a regular Ruthmere Tea event.) Reservations required with advance purchase.

Register Here for the Etiquette Tea



Tuesday's Teas @ 2

September 2 - October 21, 2025

Let your day slow down every Tuesday afternoon, 2-3:30pm, during the months of September in Ruthmere's garden and October in Ruthmere's game room (unless weather permits outdoors). Watch the butterflies chase the dragonflies while you sip your tea. Bring your own favorite tea cup, or borrow one of ours. Meet your friends, make new friends, or enjoy a quiet seat alone to read a book. Our Tuesday Teas reflect a traditional afternoon English tea, offering a finger sandwich, cucumber canapĂ©,  scone and a selected sweet with your favorite tea. 

September 2

September 9

September 16

September 23

September 30

October 7

October 14

October 21

[Note that if the tea is moved indoors, the Ruthmere Game Room is NOT ADA Accessible. We apologize for any inconvenience.]

Registration and pre-payment REQUIRED and registration is only accepted up through the Saturday before each tea. Please limit groups to 8 or fewer people.








Witches Brew Tea

Sunday, October 26, 2025

from 2-4 pm

Grab your Broomsticks!

Back by popular demand is our Witches Brew Tea!

Eye of Newt and toe of frog,

Wool of bat and tongue of dog.

Adder's fork and blind worm's sting,

Lizard's leg and howlet's wing.


Spooked yet? Climb on your favorite broom and fly over to Ruthmere for our fall Witches Brew Tea!

Our Witches Brew Tea will feature a delicious assortment of teas, tea foods, and a scary good time! Costumes are strongly encouraged.


 



Tea with Mrs. Claus

December 7 & December 14, 2025

From 2-4 pm

Come celebrate the holiday season at Ruthmere at our Tea with Mrs. Claus. Come hear the secrets that only the wife of the 'jolly ole' elf ', himself would know. The tables are set with our best china and linens, and our young ladies and gentlemen enjoy sweet tea, cookies and tea sandwiches made for little fingers while our grown-up guests are served an assortment of fine teas, sweets and savories. 

We are having Mrs. Claus come on two days this year! Come in your most festive attire and bring your lists, too! 






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102 W. Beardsley Ave., Elkhart, IN 46514

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302 E. Beardsley Ave., Elkhart, IN 46514

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